sigh.. recently have been pondering over this word "friend".. what is the exact definition of this word? i sometimes don't understand what this word mean to you.. is friend there for you to play with? for you to disturb all the time? for you to oh well, i don't know what word to insert in..
ever since O level ended, we start working and we have drifted.. it had drift far away to a place where i can't reach anymore.. in fact, it had drift to a place where i can't even see your shadow anymore, with you new group of friends around you always..
seriously wondering whether did you ever treat me as your friend/brother anot.. did i judge the wrong person in you? i always thought you are those whom won't leave those that you know long enough de for someone whom you just know not long enough.. sigh..
i don't know what am i typing.. its just a post i randomly think about and type out..
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Monday, December 28, 2009
The phone bill was exceptionally high and the man of the house called a
family meeting.
Dad: People this is unacceptable. You have to limit the use of the
phone.I do not use this phone, I use the one at the office.
Mum: Same here, I hardly use this home telephone as I use my work
telephone
Son: Me too, I never use the home phone. I always use my company mobile
Maid: So what is the problem? We all use our work telephones.
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Who says that boys and girls can't ever be best friends?!Friendship is one of the best things in this life , sometimes your friends are much closer to you than your own mother or father,
But the question is :Do you believe that there is something called "friendship" between boys and girls?
That's the subject of this group....friendship is based on human interaction in spite of any gender, colour, religion, ethnicity or any other differences.
Friendship doesn't mean to talk everyday or to meet everyday and hangout together, for me it means, trust, responsibilty, being there when someone is needing you, so if there is someone that you like boy or girl, within the boundaries that your culture allows you, you can be friends...
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Saturday, December 26, 2009
risks
To laugh is to risk appearing a fool.
To weep is to risk appearing sentimental.
To reach out for another is to risk involvement.
To expose feelings is to risk revealing your true self.
To place your ideas, your dreams, before a crowdIs to risk rejection.
To love is to risk not being loved in return.
To live is to risk dying.
To hope is to risk disappointment.
To try is to risk failure.
But risks must be taken, because the greatest hazard
In life is to risk nothing.
Those who risk nothing, do nothing, have nothing,
And become nothing.
They may avoid present suffering and sorrow, but they
Will not learn, feel, change, grow, love, or live.
Chained by their fear, they are slaves who have forfeited
Their freedom.
Only a person who risks is free.
The pessimist complains about the wind;
The optimist expects it to change;
And the realist adjusts the sails.
—
William Arthur Ward
this is so good, i had to take it off from Ashley's blog(:
i'm going to print this out and stick it somewhere. hahahahas!!
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Monday, December 14, 2009
do you ever realise how friendships are so easily broken?how trust are so easily broken? how people, whom you thought were your friends, did so much just to hurt you badly. how people put on masks just to get close to you and make you think that they are your friends, and eventually make the worst out of you? If you look closely around you, there are many such "friends"around you who are like this. But on the bright side, there are also friends whom are true to you.
& how do you tell if your friends are true? it may be pretty difficult to tell for almost everyone of us, but there are definately some points where its obvious who are your friends and who are not.
real friends, understand one another and they are the ones whom you can trust your secret with and depend on. They will never leak out your secrets or say things that harm you, be it infront or behind your back. At times, they may tease you around, but they will never speak ill of you, for they accept you for who you are. Also, in times of need, they are the one who will be there to comfort you and gives you support. Even if you are not in contact with one another for quite awhile, in times of need, they will be there for you no matter whenever it is..
To add on, true friends don't lead you by the nose. they work things out and walk abreast with you. Take for example, there were this friends of mine, friend
A will always follow friend B around wherever he goes. this isn't what friends are for. This seems more like a dog following its master. i'm not trying to say anyone though. Furthermore, true friends don't always break their promises due to small little things such as "i don't feel like going out anymore" or "i wanna sleep". Instead, they will keep to their promises that they made with you, and not make up stupid excuses to shake you off!i'm not trying to say that everybody are those type of people who put on masks to get around people. But, those people who do, are just simply too pathetic and miserable for they can't be who they are. The reasons these people want to make life miserable for others is simply because they are jealous of you or miserable themselves!. so, don't get upset by these type of people! they are so not worth it! [:
& i bet, those that are reading this post, most are thinking "i am not that type of friends!" but everyone did these things to at least one or more friends around them for sure!
well, its not like i'm saying that i have never done anything out of those points. YES, i do make up reasons just cause i don't feel like going out. and YES i do talk about my friends to other people! but NO, i don't say things that are untrue about my friends. i don't act like i'm your friend and behind you, i backstab you. If i really have something against you, you will know it, cause i would just say it in your face or show it out!
if you simply don't like it, what i can say/do is sorry, i am straightforward in stating my views and NO, i don't put on my masks just to get around people. i am who i am, i love being myself. if you know me well enough, you should know it. and if you don't like it, leave me then! its not like i'm holding a gun on your head and forcing you to stay by my side to pretend to be my friend. sorrys! i don't need these types of pretendy friends. [:
i ♥ all my friends whom have gone through thick and thin alongside with me all the way! enduring all my nonsense,lamb stuff and my silliness! [:
TZJ,WGKS,AWYL,CCS,SLKH,PHJ,SPYL,CLWY,CFCL,KLLZ,CSJ,TYT,ARBS,AMBS,DG,WEWL,SACM and lastly SSCL!
to those names stated above, i simply love all of you! ♥
they are so many more, but these are my friends who had been with me through bad and happy times & given me advices and encouragements and not 瞧不起我！谢谢你们！
the following message is for CCS: eh, pardon me eh for being so blur at work place.. i need time to adjust to things and there are simply too many storeroom and all the room names are weird! so allow me some time to remember the name and guide and help me along as we work together please! thanks! hope you would see this short message..
adopted from : Edna Sia Wan Ling Me blogged @ | 11:56 PM
真的不知道你为什么要回来。别人回来是因为相信自己能去poly/JC，可是要回来，你就要用功读书，可是你每天都不要来，要这么颈部呢？我已经不管这么多了。我能做的也已经做了，你不要做，我也不能对你做什么。i wash my hands off you already. want come, your problem, don't want? your problem too..
in class today keep sneezing, and used 3 packets of tissue.. had bad flu and runny nose, like a tap.. off to sleep already.. feeling unwell le. bye!
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